I haven’t updated this blog in a very long time but there is a lot more to write if I get time. I remember a woman I spent time with who was very skiddish about the idea of urethral stimulation. Then she saw a video of a “punch kit” being used on a man and it sent her into fits. A “punch kit” is a 6cm or longer soft vinyl urethral insert about the size of a thumb at one end tapering to about pencil sized. There are several versions. One has a clip that keeps it inserted during sex. Another has a large handle attached. It’s designed to be used by a partner.

Anyway, she got so excited we tried it and she sat on my fist while doing it to me. For some reason it’s sometimes a huge turn on for women to watch this kind of activity. Later she tried several shorter female versions. One is a small football (.5 cm) shaped thing with a small chain attached. It’s inserted into the female urethra until it presses on the erectile tissues. Left in place during various sexual activity she reported being able to feel the erectile tissue around her urethra engorge and relax with her excitement. For her it was the first time she was aware of her excitement as an “erectile” experience.

Some relevant video can be found here: http://www.trbailey.net/sex/v/clips/objfist

Anyway, thanks again.