Jul 01 2008
Please read this post so you know what to expect and to help you understand the context within which these articles are written.
Please, beware that this entire site content contains memories that occurred in what I believe to be a past life, a past life that occurred elsewhere as-in not on Earth. I don’t know for sure where but I very clearly recall many, many details. In this past life I lived in a social context where people are, for the most part, socially independent. A context where there are no governments ruling the masses. A context where the masses rule themselves by taking responsibility for their own lives rather than voting for a bunch of liars and thieves to “represent” them. We live in a socially dependent context, where one person’s thought’s or feelings are “expected” to effect another person. Where we hear the excuse “I had no other choice” on a regular basis. Where addictions run rampant and it’s socially acceptable, even expected to avoid responsibility as much as we can. Where the definition of morality is whether or not laws were broken. We live in a social context where most people think of law as a definition of morality. The fact is, we do have a choice and we are responsible for our own actions and their consequences and morality, regardless of its definition, has nothing at all to do with a long list of “do’s” and “don’ts”. As long as our intent is honest, we are ONLY responsible for our own choices. To expect other people to be on the lookout for our own interests, no matter how much we may want it, doesn’t work. Within this context without governments, without leaders, without the entitled elite “farming the masses” for its most precious resource, that being labor, life is very, very different. See Thoughts on being human and/or About Me to get a better idea where this comes from and to read more on the philosophy I call honesty. Additionally you can read Galaxy Primer which contains additional references. These posts are quite old and are poorly written. I’ve not updated them because they help remind me what I was like back then.
We beings do not exist within a spatial vacuum. We live on a rather small planet on the farthest reaches of an incredibly large and overwhelmingly dense galaxy we have explored only in theory using tools designed to extrapolate the whole from a tidbit of it’s parts. Can a human child be understood through it’s DNA alone? Can your history really be predicted by a mathematical formula? Only by working to understand our place in this galaxy by honesty sharing our experiences and feelings with each other can hope to begin the move into deeper places within it and beyond, to other even deeper, more complex galactic structures in later lives. Life is an ongoing discovery process and sex is an expression of that ongoing development. When we are sexually unaware or place the responsibility for our ongoing development on other people or on some ethereal, theoretical, seemingly magical entity, we loose the ability to make choices. Without choice there is no opportunity and life comes to a screeching halt. I call that process incest and it begins with avoidance. Avoidance of our own feelings to be succinct. Avoiding our feelings because some book tells us they are evil, or because a man in Rome proclaimed it so, or due to someone’s interpretation of a 10,000 year old poorly translated manuscript is literally insane. Avoidance leads to dependence on other people for our information, short circuiting the exploration and development process.
An Introduction to “Sexual memories from a Past Life”
Why do people engage in Sexual Bondage?
What is the purpose?
First let me say that I disagree with what I’ve seen and read about Bondage being for the purpose of “taking out your frustrations”. Bondage is not about violence and it’s definitely not about hurting someone, least of all the object. It’s about exploring sexual stimulation and guttural sexual urges that we humans feel at times. It’s about exploring what we find sexual as individuals. It’s about finding reasonable limits within the bounds of social, cultural, historical and personal relationships. Bondage is about exploring one’s own self in an ever increasing effort to develop and increase the quality of all our relationships. Above all, Sexual Bondage is about honesty.
On with the question that all of us who are even mildly interested in sexual bondage, whether we participate or not, usually ask first. Hopefully before we begin. Without at least a very basic understanding of the purpose of bondage, we tend to “fill in the blanks” based on what we see or hear from other people and in most cases we miss the point entirely. Taking information from other people at face value without exploring and validating it ourselves will ultimately lead us deeper into dependence upon each other for our choices, our desires, even our most basic behaviors. Many of us have learned the hard and painful way that Bondage is not about harming people and that it may take more than one lifetime to learn. Bondage is about self discovery! It’s a personal and social tool that can help us find and address feelings by increasing our awareness of their source, and in doing so immensely increase our sexual desire, our overall emotional well being, our social & cultural awareness, and our sexual satisfaction. A tool that when properly used can and will enhance our relationships with other individuals, other cultures and other societies.
If this sounds like something you are interested in exploring, read on and check back on occasion. This is a new site and it may take me time to recall and write the literally hundreds of articles I would like to write here.